Comments on: Coming Clean http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html Life, Love, Sex Fri, 21 Nov 2008 12:57:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.3.3 By: Avah http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3044 Avah Mon, 07 Jul 2008 09:46:19 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3044 I don't exactly need a reason to irrationally hate someone... I don’t exactly need a reason to irrationally hate someone…

]]> By: Bianca http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3043 Bianca Mon, 07 Jul 2008 05:45:50 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3043 I don't understand. What is it about Diva and Jefferson's relationship that is so different from all his other relationships? Why did this one in particular bother you? Biancas last blog post..<a href="http://acuriousgirl.blogspot.com/2008/07/how-jefferson-got-me-stoned.html" rel="nofollow">How Jefferson Got Me Stoned</a> I don’t understand. What is it about Diva and Jefferson’s relationship that is so different from all his other relationships? Why did this one in particular bother you?

Biancas last blog post..How Jefferson Got Me Stoned

]]> By: la petite http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3019 la petite Sun, 29 Jun 2008 05:31:41 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3019 I know its been such a long time since I've commented (life has gotten in the way and I do hate that) but after reading this is made me think. Hatred has a way of taking who you are and making the worst bits of your character stand out at attention. You feel reckless and your decisions are compelled by pure passion instead of logic or reason. It always worries me when my passionate emotions take over because while some of them are good most of the time (lust mostly) most of them are just too much to deal with if you take the moment and feed off of it. Basically what I'm trying to say (because obviously this is your private business and only you know whats going on in your own mind and I don't mean to intrude) is that as a concerned long-time reader, fellow eroti-blogger and admirer is that you need to find your true self in all of this and leave it behind you. This is such a brave post and you should be commended for your realizations. Good luck love. big hug, ♥la petite la petites last blog post..<a href="http://femmefataleteen.blogspot.com/2008/06/pansexuality-love-is-everything.html" rel="nofollow">Pansexuality: Love is Everything</a> I know its been such a long time since I’ve commented (life has gotten in the way and I do hate that) but after reading this is made me think.

Hatred has a way of taking who you are and making the worst bits of your character stand out at attention. You feel reckless and your decisions are compelled by pure passion instead of logic or reason.

It always worries me when my passionate emotions take over because while some of them are good most of the time (lust mostly) most of them are just too much to deal with if you take the moment and feed off of it.

Basically what I’m trying to say (because obviously this is your private business and only you know whats going on in your own mind and I don’t mean to intrude) is that as a concerned long-time reader, fellow eroti-blogger and admirer is that you need to find your true self in all of this and leave it behind you.

This is such a brave post and you should be commended for your realizations. Good luck love.

big hug, ♥la petite

la petites last blog post..Pansexuality: Love is Everything

]]> By: Mia http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3014 Mia Fri, 27 Jun 2008 20:53:57 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3014 Ahhh... that's why I included: "Of course, I’m a completely neutral 3rd party that doesn’t know any of this situation besides what I read here and on others’ blogs." I probably should have prefaced my statement with that to make it a bit more easy to see that I meant my statement to be taken with a grain of salt. Ahhh… that’s why I included: “Of course, I’m a completely neutral 3rd party that doesn’t know any of this situation besides what I read here and on others’ blogs.” I probably should have prefaced my statement with that to make it a bit more easy to see that I meant my statement to be taken with a grain of salt.

]]> By: Jocasta http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3012 Jocasta Fri, 27 Jun 2008 19:27:09 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3012 Understand that Avah is a dear friend and my assistant in my rope business. She knows what I mean. Understand that Avah is a dear friend and my assistant in my rope business. She knows what I mean.

]]> By: Mia http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3010 Mia Fri, 27 Jun 2008 12:11:05 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3010 @Jocasta: *shrug* her blog, her hurt, her use of the word "whore." Let's not play semantics when someone's upset and wanting to vent in a reasonably healthy place. The internet is a great place for therapy, and this post seems to have been a therapeutic one. So that you're not saying it to people's faces at inappropriate times, I feel that this is the perfect place in which to vent those feelings. Of course, I'm a completely neutral 3rd party that doesn't know any of this situation besides what I read here and on others' blogs. I'm sure if I had a blog and had the chance to vent my feelings about a certain woman (one whom I still hate 5 years later for trying to steal my husband), then there'd be plenty of the "whore," "bitch," "slut" flying around like the wicked monkeys of Oz. @Jocasta: *shrug* her blog, her hurt, her use of the word “whore.” Let’s not play semantics when someone’s upset and wanting to vent in a reasonably healthy place. The internet is a great place for therapy, and this post seems to have been a therapeutic one. So that you’re not saying it to people’s faces at inappropriate times, I feel that this is the perfect place in which to vent those feelings. Of course, I’m a completely neutral 3rd party that doesn’t know any of this situation besides what I read here and on others’ blogs. I’m sure if I had a blog and had the chance to vent my feelings about a certain woman (one whom I still hate 5 years later for trying to steal my husband), then there’d be plenty of the “whore,” “bitch,” “slut” flying around like the wicked monkeys of Oz.

]]> By: Jocasta http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3009 Jocasta Thu, 26 Jun 2008 20:54:56 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3009 Lets not bandy that term whore around too loosely. I'm a whore and often in the company of whores and besides the fact that she fucks one king of the whores, what actually has she done to deserve that description? Whore, slut and deservingly so, Jocasta Why assume it has to be a bad thing? eh? Lets not bandy that term whore around too loosely. I’m a whore and often in the company of whores and besides the fact that she fucks one king of the whores, what actually has she done to deserve that description?

Whore, slut and deservingly so,
Jocasta

Why assume it has to be a bad thing? eh?

]]> By: Avah http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3008 Avah Thu, 26 Jun 2008 15:53:12 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3008 Take out the whore part in the comment and I'm actually trashing Jefferson. And Anne Coulter is a crazy bitch! Take out the whore part in the comment and I’m actually trashing Jefferson.

And Anne Coulter is a crazy bitch!

]]> By: Wendy Blackheart http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3007 Wendy Blackheart Thu, 26 Jun 2008 15:48:14 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3007 Now see, I was going to compliment you on finally accepting responsibility for your actions towards Diva, but that last comment killed it. I don't like her either - I don't like or condone adultery, and I think there are better ways of dealing with marital issues. But you don't need to keep continually attacking her. It's unhealthy. If you've got to hate a stranger, hate Anne Coulter or something. She's a crazy bitch who deserves it. Now see, I was going to compliment you on finally accepting responsibility for your actions towards Diva, but that last comment killed it. I don’t like her either - I don’t like or condone adultery, and I think there are better ways of dealing with marital issues. But you don’t need to keep continually attacking her. It’s unhealthy. If you’ve got to hate a stranger, hate Anne Coulter or something. She’s a crazy bitch who deserves it.

]]> By: Avah http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3006 Avah Thu, 26 Jun 2008 15:19:56 +0000 http://designingintimacy.com/2008/06/coming-clean.html#comment-3006 This wasn't for you. Nor was it difficult. Because see, unlike you, I can take responsibility when it concerns me. My actions toward the whore are what ruined our relationship. But your actions towards me last week are why I dumped you. See how that works? This wasn’t for you.

Nor was it difficult. Because see, unlike you, I can take responsibility when it concerns me. My actions toward the whore are what ruined our relationship. But your actions towards me last week are why I dumped you.

See how that works?

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