Comments on: Lost: Adventurous Sex Drive. If found, please return to owner. (Or alternatively, bad, bad orgy)

By: Designing Intimacy » My Turn

Designing Intimacy » My Turn — Wed, 17 Oct 2007 05:12:43 +0000

[…] I didn’t want to have because I was afraid to say no. I’ve written about two accounts here and here. There was even a time with Jefferson last year where I probably should have told him I […]

By: (va)G

(va)G — Fri, 13 Apr 2007 05:27:47 +0000

Sometimes, libido’s go away, and that sucks. Mine once died for nearly three months, and it sucked. It came back though, after a while.

And if thats the guy I think it was, in the kitchen when I walked through getting water, I am sorry for not saying anything. I was kind of squicked out by him as well, as was my buddy.

By: Callie

Callie — Fri, 13 Apr 2007 03:21:38 +0000

*HUGS*

By: Celia

Celia — Thu, 12 Apr 2007 21:10:29 +0000

Ack! The nerve of that guy! Just because someone is at an orgy doesn’t mean that they want to have sex with YOU! Jerk.

I don’t think your libido is missing per se, maybe it’s just on a vacation… yeah, that’s it, vacation. It’ll be back soon.

In the mean time, I hope you manage to get rid of the icky feeling left over from icky guy.

Celia

By: MsBehavn

MsBehavn — Thu, 12 Apr 2007 19:12:15 +0000

De-lurking just to say that I think it’s very uncool that this guy took advantage of you in this way TWICE, Avah!

Hope you’re feeling better soon!

By: ~L

~L — Thu, 12 Apr 2007 14:33:08 +0000

it’s perfectly natural to loose interest, you’ll find it again, and then you’ll be insatiable for a month :p

By: Jefferson

Jefferson — Thu, 12 Apr 2007 14:07:01 +0000

Sometimes an orgy is perfect for what ails you. Other times, it just ain’t.

You and I talk offline, so I won’t go into this here. But I would remind your readers that “no” means “no,” especially at orgies.

If you need help getting that message across, seek it. And if you have trouble understanding that message, get smart.